Sunday, August 23, 2015

Balance

"Life is a balance of holding and letting go " _ is definitely right to say. A life is a game which tests our power to balance.And, who win will definitely have peace and happiness in their life than power, money, fame and all.

Taking mind as an example
... We have our consious mind and unconscious mind ..... Consious mind is very cunning to analyse the use of doing such and such things or how his deeds will enrich his life.Or what the public will think about his deeds Or how the public will react to it? And on.          The unconscious mind which is blind behalf of reality is self centred. And will concentrate on his own desires and needs without considering  public or surrounding.       We can see that.....if the Conscious mind acts its part completely by erasing the other part, we will just forget to enjoy the beauty of the 'summer breeze' or rain, sunset or the typical beauty of nature.We will forget to select a job which can at least compromise with our passions.And we sometimes lacks time to spend with our nears and dears.   And if the unconscious mind comes to rule. ......nothing to say. ...he will be just a 'tragic hero'.Or may be he will become a so called hero to the media and his life will be a tragedy..........................By balancing our unconscious mind and conscious mind everything will be all right.

Just think about a plant, if it get much water and lacks sunlight, will not grow properly.

Life is a game of balancing our ........needs and pleasures....deeds and speeches....and sorrows and joys.

As said above life is a balance of holding and letting go, we are always holding some unwanted actions and thoughts and needs....,likewise we are letting go some bright thoughts or hopes or desires or needs and pleasures and on.

Saturday, August 22, 2015

JOurNeY

He is the man of the age.
Started under shadow.
Brightness increased and
shadow faded...
Active eyes of night and
working nervous of day.
Go on with the sum total and
Later divided to two and
again merged to give shade..
Faded by day.
Darkness of night and plainness
of day.





SpEeCH

Your speech...
Sounded as you...to me...
And we get married.

And we are here today ....
to get divorce. 
'Court' and friends..
Advice me.
it was good.

But how can I trust them.
As the very 'speech' was the
Villain of my life.



Thursday, August 20, 2015

Break 2

A break  m  a y bring us to a world where is none to order or wait or comment or listen to us.We r the 'master',we r free then,free from all.....so we can keep our 'bundles' 'aside' for that beautiful moments.Or may be, it can just escape us from reality by entering into a magical world.

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Final account of marriage


It is all about their journey, since,their marriage to divorce.Just think of a Balance Sheet of a wife and husband who works as managers, respectively,,, and has same amount of salary........ Their balance sheet will definitely tally for the first year,but the remaining year will be a competition to win more assets and to reduce liability.

A 'planning' wife will enter all her marriage expenses as current liability and wanted to win it back soon in the form of jewels,dress,and land and always quarrel with her husband for the same purpose. Finding no other way,he will unknowingly 'get trapped' to her needs.Husband,who is very proud to get such a large amount from bride,enter all her 'carriage' as asset and feel relaxed for the next 10 years.

Both entered their child in liability column, and he costs more as a liability as getting age.Wife is 'earning' more from her husband and asset column is becoming rich after every years.Husband, who was very relaxed, is getting confused after each years..his liability is getting increased and assets seem to be comparatively low.

Once they discussed about the same matter,and concluded of getting divorce. Husband thought,, his wife has some extra marital affairs..thus she is getting more money...Wife is happy, as she has enough money and possessions to marry a gentle, handsome guy and never wanted to prove herself.

Saturday, August 15, 2015

Godown

Ram was one of the brilliant of his class....he was ambitious and dreamt of heights....His spirit to 'won',,, was enough  to describe him....he was ready to sacrifice his favourite possessions in order to win....and as a child he lost many chocolates, ball, pen and on and on for the same.

He has no much freinds than his one or two neighbours. ..His best friend was his mother..and he always used to spend most of his time with her..some times he wished to be a kid in front of her...so he could share all his hopes and dreams and thoughts and sorrows with her.....and Once he said to her "mom,you is my 'godown'...of my soul...where I kept all my 'ranks', dreams, thoughts and hopes..and If it is full..we can just upgrade it.." both of them laughed. 

Now he passed his plus two and appeared for CPT exam...he wished to become a chartered accountant. ..He got addmittion in a popular institution. ...He struggled to win the paper for 5 year.....

Now...he got the result .....of his struggle...a better job opportunity.He packed his luggage. ...and said goodbye to all...........An 'old' sound came out...she said " t h e godown is f ree n o w".


Utility

Aravind was new to Kochi.He doesn't wanted his wife and child with him,as there was no use of them in Kochi.He always used to analyse the ' utility'...  by doing such and such things.

He dropped his car in front of a hotel...Supplier came with menu.....After reading the menu card..Aravind just get up and slap the supplier and said..,"why you waste such a good paper to print some 'names'....couldn't you utter those little items...or print in a cheap paper???........As customer is the king according to the business law....supplier keep mum.

He then searched for room..He just made some unpleasant talks with the female staffs of the building regarding rent,as usual...and he took his bag and get ready to leave...But two 'uniform' came to him and took him to a Jeep.

He released from lock up. ...and later felt bad to leave free food and  room and light and water.....and hope to return, soon

His phone rang.....his wife was calling. ..in a sad tone...she started to speak...in broken words..........  "Our son...was not well...morning.....now ...he  d ead....."

Aravind seems to be 'the same'.He thought "my son was not good enough to study,he was too lazy,and not very bright in any field at all.......so his death will not bring any losses into my accounts".

Friday, August 14, 2015

KITE

Once you hold me.
As You as a part of me...
And am... part of you.
You allows me to fly.
To heights.
May be upon sky....
I see you and me and all...
Dim and bright..
A laughter...shake me
And I feel I can capture
the world.

Now you hold me,badly....
And very badly.....
You,is no longer for me..
And me too...
Now I can't fly...
And sky... is beyond my limit.

Am..the looser???
Or you???

Monday, August 3, 2015

Break

What all thoughts will have an outsider of earth,if he happened to see our social or political or religious conditions,if he happened to hear our debates and seminars and talks,if he happened to hear our media's.........May be,he will 'run' with his life???
 
There are number of 'believers',who wants to promote and spread their own religion and faith,is good.But if it is by harming the life of other believer,is just out of political ideologies.


Why we have patriarchy and matriarchy.,still they could not exist without each other..Both celebrates  much qualities and more weaknesses..Many generations some times shows men,addicted to Alcohol,Money and women... and may be thus medias are using women as  a tool for advertisement,exploiting their weaknesses.And studies proves more men are addicted to alcohol and money.....Meanwhile,,women is fond of luxury,gossip,friends..and on..and may be thus they are getting trapped to many online 'fake' chats..when men concentrates in 'economical' aspects of  life women links with social aspects....In some religion, the position of mother is thrice multiplied with the position of  father as she suffered much.And husband have some rights over his wife as he is ordered to protect her economical needs during their 'long' life,and many men 'ends' there life in foreign countries for the same purpose.........They are not at all equal and seems both is not raised up to the level to 'rule' the other  ,,,,as human being itself is a limitation.


Why we feel jealous or envy or angry towards some people.We just,,,some passengers of earth for the era,we are not stable,moving and moving and moving,if we stick to a particular 'zone',,our journey will not complete.......If we won by defeating the opponent in a 'cunning' way,we will no longer have peace in our mind..In every human mind,God installed some programs which promotes some social values And we always 'fails' to recognize it .

Saturday, August 1, 2015

Polish

Today you polish
Your shoes...
AND Forget to iron
your dress...
You comb your hair
AND forget to shave.
polish ur mind
You take your tiffin
AND forget to have your breakfast.
You say baiii 
AND forget to smile.

Thursday, July 30, 2015

Just gone

Those days could only make her sad.Her days were ended with tears,with cheerful memories of past.She never 'wants' a listener than her cheeks.She seems to be alone in this world.But she eagerly waited for a call,and loved it much than anything.

She seems to be the most happiest person ,now . She could enjoy each and every moments of her life.Her thoughts and dreams got life, by sharing with a single person..where from she regained the loss of her past......She notieced those Lovely honed words of her chat sheet.She started to love those texts.

Someone comes to visit her after 6 year of Abroad life and 'stated' themselves as parents.She behaved,mechanically before them.Rush to her room and turn on her PC and started feeding, she addressed a person, as 'Mom'.


Life!!!


¤Life is a mission without undo and delete but there is save and overwrite.
¤Life as an in completed story,always have nd had the same climax,but always viewers can 'interpret' It in diffrent ways.
¤Each life is not 'self sufficient'.

Wednesday, July 29, 2015

3 passengers

Thinking of a passager,who has a destination to reach..........may be with a correct idea of her root, with all her 'carriage' to direct to herself and 'some thing' comes to boost her,but she has limited 'agency'_......._some times the 'journey' started,accidently,by some outward pressures,which made her partially blind,she got a part and lost the other,she got more 'agency'_......_and...a passanger who could not experience any kind of inward or outward pressure,not 'blind' at all,none comes to boost or compell or comment or suggest,never carry a map,no such boundaries and has the 'agency' to do what ever she likes to...


Definitely,the first passenger will succeed in her journey.With in the limited boundary..with limited agency.

Human,could only live inside the boundary which formed by 'society',government,may be religion...there is no a single free man is born...and if any one violate this principle,will be a failure.